A lot has been put down about the qualities of a good husband material but
nothing really has been written on how to attract such a man.
I've heard many girls say, "there are only very few guys who wants to settle down. They are all the same. Sleep and dump you". That's not true! We have real guys who want to settle down. It's just that some ladies are quite uninformed as to how to attract such guys. When preparation meets opportunity, success is achieved, they say! How do you attract a marriageable guy?
Originality is a vital trait every guy wants
in his girl. No real guy wants to marry a girl who isn't comfortable with
herself. She isn't okay with her looks so goes everywhere on fake everything"!
Such a girl may not find a serious guy.
Dressing Almost Naked To Impress Isn't The Best
I know it's your body and your business but I must say this: If a guy gets to like you first because you exposed your body, it will be damn hard to get him to notice how intelligent you are in other areas. That's where FIRST IMPRESSION really matters a lot. He's been starved. You fed him. He got close to you. He got tired of your food. He looks out. Your guess is as good as mine.
Have A Goal In Life:
There are already so many girls without goals. Don't join them. They have decided to get married to a "rich guy" as they say, and bury their career in his wallet. Girl, career ladies may have their own issues but no guy wishes to date a "broke ass" girl too. If you are broke, at least have a dream, a career. Let it drive the course of your life. When he sees your passion for something other than money, clothes and sex, he will make a move.
Lend A Helping Hand Where Necessary:
Remember we are talking about how to attract the kind of guy whose love for you bypasses your "temporary looks". Having watched "Devious Maids," Season 2: One of the maids caught the fancy of a very handsome man, because of what? She was wholeheartedly helping his dad. Free yourself. Go out of your way and help someone. It's not about attracting anyone but being nice Apart from sex and other usual things, can your guy really call you a HELP? Nothing moves a guy than a lady helping him in to do what he isn't disposed to do.
Be Committed To A Religion:
There is something about being a "religious" person; it creates an atmosphere of good expectations. It promises him of something good, at least. Though, there are so many counterfeits here and there.
Disconnect Yourself From Sugar Daddies:
Excuse me! I went to a university where having a sugar daddy was a norm. Flashy cars roll in the girls' hostels every evening. Yet, these girls are praying for a husband material! Sometimes, the reason some ladies face prolonged single hood is this! Mind you, a sugar daddy doesn't necessarily have to be an elderly man!
Spend Some Of Your Time With Married Ladies
As earlier quoted, success is where preparation meets with opportunity. In life, you don't get what you want when you want it. You get it when you've prepared (to an extent) for it. Hanging out with those type of ladies helps to build a marital disposition in you.
Dressing Almost Naked To Impress Isn't The Best
I know it's your body and your business but I must say this: If a guy gets to like you first because you exposed your body, it will be damn hard to get him to notice how intelligent you are in other areas. That's where FIRST IMPRESSION really matters a lot. He's been starved. You fed him. He got close to you. He got tired of your food. He looks out. Your guess is as good as mine.
Have A Goal In Life:
There are already so many girls without goals. Don't join them. They have decided to get married to a "rich guy" as they say, and bury their career in his wallet. Girl, career ladies may have their own issues but no guy wishes to date a "broke ass" girl too. If you are broke, at least have a dream, a career. Let it drive the course of your life. When he sees your passion for something other than money, clothes and sex, he will make a move.
Lend A Helping Hand Where Necessary:
Remember we are talking about how to attract the kind of guy whose love for you bypasses your "temporary looks". Having watched "Devious Maids," Season 2: One of the maids caught the fancy of a very handsome man, because of what? She was wholeheartedly helping his dad. Free yourself. Go out of your way and help someone. It's not about attracting anyone but being nice Apart from sex and other usual things, can your guy really call you a HELP? Nothing moves a guy than a lady helping him in to do what he isn't disposed to do.
Be Committed To A Religion:
There is something about being a "religious" person; it creates an atmosphere of good expectations. It promises him of something good, at least. Though, there are so many counterfeits here and there.
Disconnect Yourself From Sugar Daddies:
Excuse me! I went to a university where having a sugar daddy was a norm. Flashy cars roll in the girls' hostels every evening. Yet, these girls are praying for a husband material! Sometimes, the reason some ladies face prolonged single hood is this! Mind you, a sugar daddy doesn't necessarily have to be an elderly man!
Spend Some Of Your Time With Married Ladies
As earlier quoted, success is where preparation meets with opportunity. In life, you don't get what you want when you want it. You get it when you've prepared (to an extent) for it. Hanging out with those type of ladies helps to build a marital disposition in you.
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